What decision am I avoiding?
The one decision you keep not making, what the delay costs, and a smaller version to make now.
- When to use
- When something has been on your mind for months and never reaches the top of the list.
- Time
- 10 min
The prompt
I suspect there’s a decision I keep not making. Don’t answer yet. Ask me up to six questions, one at a time, about what I keep researching without acting on, what I complain about most, what I’ve been meaning to deal with for more than three months, and where I change the subject. Then name the one decision you think I’m avoiding. Show the evidence from my answers, say what the delay is costing me, and offer a smaller version of the decision that I could make this week. Don’t flatter me. If my answers don’t point anywhere clear, say so instead of forcing a guess. Be direct. No padding and no reassurance I did not ask for.
From what you know about me, what decision am I avoiding right now? Name one, point to where it has come up in our conversations, and separate what you know from what you’re guessing. Tell me what waiting is costing me and the smallest piece of it I could decide this week. If nothing stands out, say so instead of forcing one. Don’t flatter me. Be direct. No padding and no reassurance I did not ask for.
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