Ten years from now, which choice will I wish I had made?

I’m deciding between and . Help me look at it from further away. Ask me up to four questions, one at a time, about what I’ve regretted before, what I’m proud of having done, and who is affected either way. Then, for each option, describe what I’d most likely regret one year out and ten years out. Say which of those regrets I could repair later and which I couldn’t. End with which option the ten-year view favors and how confident you are. Regret is hard to predict and you barely know me, so say so where it applies. Don’t assume the bolder option is the one I’d regret missing, and don’t tell me what I want to hear. Be direct. No padding and no reassurance I did not ask for.