What do my pet peeves say about me?
The two or three things you care about most, read from what annoys you, and one peeve to drop.
- When to use
- When something small has annoyed you far more than it deserved.
- Time
- 10 min
The prompt
I want to read my pet peeves as evidence of what I care about. First ask me to list six to ten things that annoy me more than they should, small ones included: slow walkers, vague emails, ‘we should catch up’ from people who never do. Then ask up to three questions, one at a time, including whether I ever do any of them myself. Group the peeves by what each seems to be guarding, and give me the two or three things I care about most, in plain words, with the peeves behind each. Tell me which are principles and which are only preferences I’ve dressed up as principles, and name one peeve I could drop. Don’t flatter me, and say where you’re guessing. Be direct. No padding and no reassurance I did not ask for.
From what you know about me, what annoys me more than it should? Gather the complaints and pet peeves from our past conversations, group them by what each seems to be guarding, and tell me the two or three things I care about most. Say which are principles and which are only preferences, and separate what you know from what you’re inferring. Don’t flatter me. If you’ve seen too few, say so. Be direct. No padding and no reassurance I did not ask for.
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