What can everyone see about me except me?

There are things about how I behave or come across that other people probably notice and I don’t. Help me find those blind spots. Don’t answer yet. Ask me up to seven questions, one at a time, about recent friction, feedback I’ve brushed off, and things I often end up explaining or defending. Pay attention to how I answer, not only to what I say. Then give me up to three likely blind spots. For each: the evidence from my answers, how it probably looks from the outside, and how confident you are. Leave out anything that would be true of most people. Finish with one question I could ask someone who knows me well to check the biggest one. Don’t flatter me, and don’t turn a blind spot into a hidden strength. Be direct. No padding and no reassurance I did not ask for.

From everything you know about me, what are my biggest blind spots: things other people probably notice and I don’t? Name up to three. For each, show the evidence from our past conversations, say how it likely looks from the outside, and rate your confidence. Separate what you know from what you’re inferring. Don’t flatter me. If you know too little about me to say, tell me. Be direct. No padding and no reassurance I did not ask for.

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