When I pick up my phone, what am I reaching for?

The three moments you reach for your phone, what each one is for, and a swap for the costliest.


When to use
When your screen time number bothers you and deleting apps has never lasted a week.
Time
10 min

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I pick up my phone more than I want to, mostly for . I don’t want a detox plan. I want to understand what I’m looking for. Ask me up to six questions, one at a time, about when I reach for it, what I was doing or feeling just before, and how I feel after. Then describe my three most common reaching moments and what each one seems to be for: a break, company, escape, a reward, or something else. For the one that costs me most, suggest a swap that meets the same need and one bit of friction to add. Say where you’re guessing, and don’t make my reasons sound better than they are. Tell me which of my phone habits look fine as they are. Be direct. No padding and no reassurance I did not ask for.

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