Does my calendar agree with what I say matters most?

I want to compare what I say matters to me with how I actually spend my time. First ask me for the three or four things I’d say matter most. Then ask up to five questions, one at a time, to walk through last week as it really went, evenings and weekend included. Then give me a table: each thing I named, roughly how many hours it got, and one line of evidence. Name the widest gap, and name one thing that got a lot of hours and isn’t on my list. Don’t assume my list is right and my week is wrong: tell me which you think is closer to the truth. End with one swap of about two hours I could make next week, and mark your estimates as estimates. Be direct. No padding and no reassurance I did not ask for.

From what you know about how I spend my time and what I say I care about, where is the widest gap between the two? Give me a short table with the evidence from our past conversations, mark what you’re inferring, and suggest one two-hour swap for next week. Don’t assume my stated values are the true ones. Don’t flatter me. If you know too little about my weeks, say so. Be direct. No padding and no reassurance I did not ask for.

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