What kind of friend am I, really?
An honest portrait of you as a friend: what you give, where you go missing, and one thing to do.
- When to use
- When you suspect you’re a better friend in your head than in your friends’ calendars.
- Time
- 10 min
- In the pack
- The year in review Step 4 of 7
The prompt
I want an honest picture of what kind of friend I am. Don’t answer yet. Ask me up to seven questions, one at a time, about real recent moments: the last time a friend needed something, who I reached out to this month, a plan I canceled, how I reacted to a friend’s good news. Then describe me as a friend in three parts: what I reliably give, where I go missing, and what a close friend might wish I knew but wouldn’t say. Point to my answers as evidence. Don’t flatter me, and say where you’re guessing. End with one small thing to do this week for one specific person. Be direct. No padding and no reassurance I did not ask for.
From everything you know about me, what kind of friend am I? Describe what I reliably give, where I go missing, and what a close friend might wish I knew but wouldn’t say. Show the evidence from our past conversations and separate what you know from what you’re inferring. Don’t flatter me. End with one small thing to do this week for one specific person. Be direct. No padding and no reassurance I did not ask for.
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